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BOW: Growing up, my grandfather
was a perpetual bachelor.
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He ran through ladies so fast,
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we only knew them
as "Sacramento Stewardess"
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and "Pennysaver Print Model."
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So my dad never got attached
to the women
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my granddad was dating.
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I feel like this is
the only place we ever go.
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Yeah, maybe next time let's mix it up
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and maybe go some place
where they don't repurpose
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old garlic sticks for croutons.
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Hold up. Is that your dad?
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Does he have a girlfriend?
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No.
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[Laughter]
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Ah.
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I don't know, hon.
Looks pretty serious.
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SANTAMONICA:
He could do so much better.
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Who does she think she's fooling
with those press-on nails?
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[Sighs]
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♪ In the mix ♪
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♪ Oh, oh, oh, they keep trying ♪
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♪ But they can't stop us ♪
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♪ 'Cause we got a love ♪
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♪ That keeps rising up ♪
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♪ In the mix ♪
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♪ Life turns around ♪
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♪ 'Round and 'round it goes ♪
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♪ Ooh, it's a mixed-up world ♪
♪ Ooh, it's a mixed-up ♪
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♪ And that's for sure ♪
♪ Mixed-up ♪
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♪ In the mix ♪
♪ Baby ♪
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♪ We're gonna get by ♪
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♪ We're gonna ♪
♪ On our own, side by side ♪
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♪ Love's all we need to be free ♪
♪ Lo-o-o-ve is all ♪
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♪ I got you, you got me ♪
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♪ Yaaaaay us! ♪
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♪ I-I-In the mix ♪
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♪ Yaaaaay us! ♪
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♪ I-I-In the mix-ish ♪
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ALICIA: I've never seen him
on a date before.
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This is like seeing Bigfoot
order a medium pepperoni.
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What's everyone looking at?
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I left my glasses in the car.
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I bet it's serious because
I met all my boyfriends here.
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This is the most romantic place ever.
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MAN: Whoever's puking
in the whack-a-mole machine,
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- please stop.
- [Paul chuckles] Romantic.
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Well, that's
an interesting way to describe
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a millionaire and a blonde
at a dollar-a-slice pizza joint.
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Well, what are we supposed to do?
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Should we go over and try to say hello?
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Maybe send over some mozzarella sticks.
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No, we should go someplace else.
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What?! No. I love it here.
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No, you don't.
You just dissed the salad bar.
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I'm too young to be held
accountable for anything I say.
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Well, if we're staying, I'm
sending over mozzarella sticks.
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- Help him seal the deal.
- No.
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- What about a carafe of Diet Coke?
- Stop it.
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- A pitcher of mediocre light beer?
- Alicia.
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[Harrison clears throat]
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We were gonna pretend
not to notice you,
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but you made that impossible.
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Everyone, this is Georgia.
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Georgia.
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Of course.
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- Nice to meet you all.
- SANTAMONICA: What's your story, woman?
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Because you should know,
I don't have a moral compass.
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And you wonder why people
think you have a White mom.
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Sorry, she's not usually like this.
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Why don't you join us?
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We can pull up another chair
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and get to know each other
over mozzarella sticks.
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- Honey, let it go.
- Yep.
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Well, we said hello.
Now it's time for us to go.
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Nice to meet you.
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She didn't mean that.
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She smells nice. Was she pretty?
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ALICIA: Oh, baby.
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Wouldn't it be nice
if there was a place
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you could go to drink coffee
and sit and relax,
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listening to smooth jazz?
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Sounds like people would just
go there to use the bathroom.
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[Door opens, closes]
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Bow-Bow, is everything all right?
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Yeah, Mom, everything's fine.
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Aunt Dee-Dee, can I talk to you?
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I got a problem.
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Is it about your piggy bank?
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Because I'm sure the person
who smashed it
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and took all your money will pay
you back once her horse wins.
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- No, but thanks.
- Hmm.
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Anyways, I wore
my airbrushed jeans to school,
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and Tamika said they were busted.
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Are they busted?
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No!
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Oh.
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They're hot, right?
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Oh, girl!
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No, it is not hot.
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But you can't tell Tamika that.
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Act like it's the greatest thing
you've ever worn,
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then tell her someone stole them
during gym class.
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That's a great idea.
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You always give the best advice.
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♪♪
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- You always give the best advice?
- Mm-hmm.
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How often are they coming to you
with this kind of thing?
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Not that much.
Just three or four times a day.
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I'm good at helping them
with their little problems.
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Mm. What kind of problems?
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Everything from homework
to how close to midnight
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can you feed a gremlin.
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The answer is... do not feed them.
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Leave dirty furry pets
for the White people.
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So they basically come to you
for everything.
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Oh, no. Not for money.
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Not Aunt Dee-Dee.
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I don't love them that much.
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♪♪
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HARRISON: Hey.
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Ah, how did the rest
of the night go with Georgia?
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She seems charming.
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Yeah. During dinner, she asked
for the manager four times.
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She made our waiter quit.
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But... ah.
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But that's what I like about her.
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She knows what she wants.
It's attractive.
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Really?
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Well, she's different.
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I mean, when I'm with her,
I stop thinking about it
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as hours I'm not billing clients.
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It's like I lose all track of time.
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I don't even think of her
as a woman I'm dating.
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I think of her as an expensive asset
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that needs cultivation
and attention and just...
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[Laughs]
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Look at me.
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I'm gushing.
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Wow.
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I haven't seen you
this genuinely interested
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in someone since Mom left.
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- Yeah.
- Well, wait.
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If you like her so much,
why'd you take her to a place
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that gives out free food
for good report cards?
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It's a thing I do, to make sure
that when I'm dating someone,
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they're with me for me
and not for my money.
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Look, it's very easy to fall
in love with all of this.
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So I gotta dirty myself up a little
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so I don't look too good to be true.
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Dad, if you really like her,
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you probably shouldn't
play games with her like this.
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I mean, how many good relationships
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start off with a lie?
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Eh.
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Well, you may be right, son.
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A woman like that deserves the truth.
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Besides, it's all gonna come out
at some point anyway, right?
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I mean, do I look like a guy
who doesn't own
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a cigar collection
worth more than this house?
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Come on.
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Who am I gonna fool?
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[Laughs] Once upon a time,
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there was a beautiful Queen Denise
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who was as humble as she was stunning.
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You do the best stories, Aunt Denise.
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Oh!
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You know who also has good stories?
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- Oh, oh, oh.
- Excuse me.
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Oh, my.
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Mommy does.
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I am gonna tell you a story
of Princess... Pillow
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and her trusty Knight...
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Glass of Water.
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Mm-hmm.
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Princess Pillow was a soft
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and fluffy pillow princess
who was colorful and...
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Mom, Mom, it worked. I'm asleep.
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[Fake snoring]
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I'm not... I'm not done yet.
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Really?
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- [Snoring]
- Really?
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I am so sorry.
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Put me to sleep too.
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Just wait.
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So Princess Pillow...
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Oh!
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While my mom wasn't being honest
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about how she felt left out,
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my grandfather decided to stop lying.
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He had Georgia on his mind.
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So...
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why are we meeting in a law firm, huh?
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This better not be a green card thing
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because I am not gonna marry
another Irish immigrant.
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I just wanted to tell you the truth.
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Brace yourself.
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I'm not poor.
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In fact, I'm probably
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the richest person you've ever met.
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Oh.
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And I was afraid to tell you this
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because I wanted to know for certain
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that you liked me for me
and not my money,
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which I have a lot of. [Laughs]
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So, you want to grab lunch
at a decent restaurant,
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or do you need a moment
to compose yourself?
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Wow, Harrison, I don't really
know what to say
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except, uh...
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[Chuckles] I'm just so relieved.
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I know. It's like winning
the lotto, right?
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Well, in a way, yes.
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Now I don't have to worry about you
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disliking me for my money.
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- Your money?
- Mm-hmm.
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I own three of the high rises downtown.
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You would be so surprised
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how many men are intimidated by that.
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Ah!
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Ah, s... a man being intimidated
by a woman?
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In any way?
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[Chuckles] Wimps.
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[Laughs]
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My grandfather was one of those men.
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[Laughs]
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Yeah.
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Welp...
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Georgia is richer than me.
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That's what I get for trying
to date a woman
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who's old enough to rent a car.
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Georgia's got more money than you?
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Okay.
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I think it's great
that you're dating someone
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on your own level.
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Doesn't sound so great to me.
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Whoever makes the most money
is the shot caller.
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Exactly. Which movie
are we gonna go see?
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Where are we gonna eat?
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What big game are we gonna hunt?
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I don't want her telling me
that we're on a giraffe hunt.
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I'm a rhino guy.
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It's only money, Dad.
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You know who says that?
People who don't have money.
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That's like the little guy
from "Fantasy Island"
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saying it's only height.
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You know what this is?
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You're scared.
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[Scoffs] I am not.
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Why else would you run away
from a beautiful
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and talented woman who's into you?
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No, you're a scared little goat.
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[Bleating]
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Yeah, my dad, the scared little goat.
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[Bleating]
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This is the whitest
trash-talking I've ever seen.
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It's a commune thing.
Goats frighten easily.
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They usually just pass out,
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so I don't know
what the noise is about.
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- [Bleating continues]
- All right, enough, enough.
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You're right.
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[Sighs]
261
00:09:30,671 --> 00:09:34,105
Maybe I should just see
what happens if I stick with it.
262
00:09:34,224 --> 00:09:36,057
- Good for you.
- This will be our third date,
263
00:09:36,159 --> 00:09:38,743
the first one not at a fast food chain.
264
00:09:38,862 --> 00:09:40,996
I don't know. This is getting
dangerously close
265
00:09:41,081 --> 00:09:42,230
to a relationship.
266
00:09:42,316 --> 00:09:44,316
Yeah, but see, that's nothing
to be afraid of.
267
00:09:44,434 --> 00:09:46,434
Look, Dad, I've been watching
you date my entire life,
268
00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:47,552
and the way that you go about it
269
00:09:47,671 --> 00:09:49,654
is not good for something more serious.
270
00:09:49,756 --> 00:09:52,357
I was voted Most Respectful
in high school.
271
00:09:52,475 --> 00:09:53,491
Let me teach you.
272
00:09:53,610 --> 00:09:55,327
Just what he needs, dating advice
273
00:09:55,445 --> 00:09:58,530
from a man
who just imitated a damn goat.
274
00:09:58,632 --> 00:10:01,016
- Hmm?
- Damn right.
275
00:10:01,101 --> 00:10:05,520
♪♪
276
00:10:05,606 --> 00:10:07,606
Hey, Mom, have you seen Aunt Denise?
277
00:10:07,724 --> 00:10:09,908
I told all the kids at school
I was a neon black belt,
278
00:10:10,010 --> 00:10:11,293
and I was hoping she could teach me
279
00:10:11,378 --> 00:10:14,012
how to fake my way through it.
280
00:10:14,131 --> 00:10:16,164
You don't need Denise for that.
281
00:10:16,266 --> 00:10:17,315
Let me teach you.
282
00:10:17,434 --> 00:10:19,267
I make grown men cry in the courtroom.
283
00:10:19,369 --> 00:10:20,869
How hard could this be?
284
00:10:20,954 --> 00:10:21,953
Come on.
285
00:10:22,072 --> 00:10:23,455
Let momma show you.
286
00:10:23,573 --> 00:10:25,457
♪♪
287
00:10:25,575 --> 00:10:27,592
Okay, let's begin.
288
00:10:27,711 --> 00:10:30,395
Martial arts is about finding balance.
289
00:10:30,514 --> 00:10:31,813
Like this.
290
00:10:31,898 --> 00:10:34,733
♪♪
291
00:10:34,851 --> 00:10:36,884
Like this?
292
00:10:36,987 --> 00:10:38,253
Exactly.
293
00:10:38,338 --> 00:10:41,089
All you have to do is find your center.
294
00:10:41,174 --> 00:10:43,958
Slow down, and that will impress them.
295
00:10:44,061 --> 00:10:45,894
Okay. I think I'm getting this.
296
00:10:45,979 --> 00:10:47,228
I feel like this is gonna work.
297
00:10:47,314 --> 00:10:49,564
While slowing things down
allowed my mother
298
00:10:49,650 --> 00:10:52,050
to feel connected to her child,
299
00:10:52,169 --> 00:10:54,536
my father sat down to teach
my grandfather
300
00:10:54,621 --> 00:10:55,920
about relationships.
301
00:10:56,039 --> 00:10:58,456
I'm glad you're coming to me
to take this step
302
00:10:58,558 --> 00:11:00,875
because after 17 years of marriage,
303
00:11:00,978 --> 00:11:02,394
I've learned what it takes to make
304
00:11:02,512 --> 00:11:04,646
a long-term relationship work.
305
00:11:04,748 --> 00:11:05,947
And what do you think that is?
306
00:11:06,033 --> 00:11:07,916
- Sex.
- No, it is not.
307
00:11:08,001 --> 00:11:10,485
Not that it's not that,
but that's not what I'm talking about.
308
00:11:10,570 --> 00:11:12,671
You're not talking
about "trust," are you?
309
00:11:12,773 --> 00:11:13,938
Why do you say it like that?
310
00:11:14,057 --> 00:11:15,089
It is "trust."
311
00:11:15,192 --> 00:11:18,259
No, what I'm talking about
is vulnerability.
312
00:11:18,362 --> 00:11:19,411
Honesty.
313
00:11:19,529 --> 00:11:20,612
Allowing the other person
314
00:11:20,730 --> 00:11:22,864
to see the real you and all your flaws.
315
00:11:24,034 --> 00:11:27,585
All right, Dad, let's...
let's try something here.
316
00:11:27,704 --> 00:11:28,970
- Pretend I'm Georgia.
- [Scoffs]
317
00:11:29,056 --> 00:11:30,522
We're on a date.
318
00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,473
We're having dinner.
319
00:11:32,576 --> 00:11:34,359
How would you open up to me?
320
00:11:34,477 --> 00:11:37,662
I'd talk about how we should
hurry up and eat dinner
321
00:11:37,781 --> 00:11:40,832
because dessert is what I paid for.
322
00:11:40,934 --> 00:11:42,684
No, Dad, that is not what you would do
323
00:11:42,769 --> 00:11:44,169
because you like this woman.
324
00:11:44,271 --> 00:11:45,770
Come on.
325
00:11:45,889 --> 00:11:47,188
Let's get deep.
326
00:11:47,274 --> 00:11:49,107
I really need you to dig in there.
327
00:11:49,225 --> 00:11:50,275
[Sighs]
328
00:11:50,377 --> 00:11:52,844
Okay. Here's something I would say.
329
00:11:52,963 --> 00:11:56,514
Every time I watch the movie
"Back to the Future," I cry
330
00:11:56,616 --> 00:11:59,517
because it's really about a
father and a son getting closer.
331
00:11:59,636 --> 00:12:00,652
You go.
332
00:12:02,656 --> 00:12:06,341
My son was in a cult for 15 years,
333
00:12:06,426 --> 00:12:10,061
and I was so embarrassed that
I told everybody he was dead.
334
00:12:12,065 --> 00:12:14,699
But I missed him either way.
335
00:12:14,801 --> 00:12:17,185
Okay.
336
00:12:17,287 --> 00:12:20,755
Yeah, see, th-th-that honesty
is what creates bonds.
337
00:12:20,841 --> 00:12:22,674
Yeah, you just go into your date
unafraid
338
00:12:22,793 --> 00:12:24,175
to talk about how you really feel.
339
00:12:24,294 --> 00:12:25,293
Okay, yeah.
340
00:12:25,395 --> 00:12:27,245
This may work.
341
00:12:27,364 --> 00:12:28,897
What did you tell people I died of?
342
00:12:28,982 --> 00:12:29,981
Syphilis.
343
00:12:30,100 --> 00:12:31,900
God.
344
00:12:31,985 --> 00:12:33,451
Hi-ya!
345
00:12:33,570 --> 00:12:34,869
Hi-ya!
346
00:12:34,955 --> 00:12:36,821
Well done, Johan-san.
347
00:12:36,923 --> 00:12:38,723
But make those chucks fast and messy.
348
00:12:38,842 --> 00:12:40,525
Nobody's impressed
by a graceful chucker.
349
00:12:40,644 --> 00:12:43,478
- Come on, go, go.
- Wait, Johan, what are you doing?
350
00:12:43,563 --> 00:12:45,864
Didn't you learn everything
you needed to from me?
351
00:12:45,942 --> 00:12:46,865
Not at all.
352
00:12:46,967 --> 00:12:49,401
And besides, purse chucking is cool.
353
00:12:49,503 --> 00:12:52,303
It's a purse-based martial arts
I'm developing.
354
00:12:52,406 --> 00:12:54,105
But at my school, you get belts
you want to wear.
355
00:12:54,224 --> 00:12:56,157
I'm a Ferragamo.
356
00:12:56,243 --> 00:12:59,444
Well, I guess the kids
don't need me then.
357
00:12:59,562 --> 00:13:01,629
I'll just be the person
who brings them dinner
358
00:13:01,715 --> 00:13:04,949
and... you can fold your own laundry.
359
00:13:08,388 --> 00:13:10,488
Come on, let's get back into it.
360
00:13:10,607 --> 00:13:11,656
Come on, you're not a little kid.
361
00:13:11,758 --> 00:13:13,091
You're a man!
362
00:13:13,193 --> 00:13:16,944
So while Johan was "learning"
from my aunt,
363
00:13:17,047 --> 00:13:20,298
Grandad Harrison tried to take
my dad's lessons to heart.
364
00:13:21,751 --> 00:13:23,268
Well, they didn't have whack-a-mole,
365
00:13:23,386 --> 00:13:25,353
but I thought the steak
was pretty good.
366
00:13:25,439 --> 00:13:27,322
Yeah, and my family
can't afford this place,
367
00:13:27,407 --> 00:13:30,325
so our chances of getting
interrupted are slim.
368
00:13:31,261 --> 00:13:32,710
Will you guys be needing anything else?
369
00:13:32,829 --> 00:13:34,495
Nope. Just the check.
370
00:13:34,598 --> 00:13:35,680
Mm.
371
00:13:35,799 --> 00:13:38,216
Here, I'll take care of it.
372
00:13:38,334 --> 00:13:40,301
Hey, if I had a lady pay for me,
373
00:13:40,387 --> 00:13:41,820
I'd be stoked.
374
00:13:43,323 --> 00:13:44,272
[Thudding]
375
00:13:44,374 --> 00:13:47,242
[Echoing] Lady pay for me...
376
00:13:47,327 --> 00:13:49,661
Lady pay for me...
377
00:13:49,779 --> 00:13:51,246
Lady pay for me...
378
00:13:51,331 --> 00:13:54,782
[Laughter]
379
00:13:54,885 --> 00:13:59,087
♪♪
380
00:13:59,172 --> 00:14:00,454
You've got this.
381
00:14:00,557 --> 00:14:02,623
Her paying the check
doesn't mean anything.
382
00:14:02,726 --> 00:14:04,476
Just be vulnerable.
383
00:14:04,594 --> 00:14:05,626
[Ding!]
384
00:14:05,729 --> 00:14:07,111
Harrison?
385
00:14:07,214 --> 00:14:08,179
Harrison.
386
00:14:08,298 --> 00:14:09,647
[Laughs]
387
00:14:09,766 --> 00:14:13,234
- Is everything all right?
- Uh, uh... yeah.
388
00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:14,519
Yeah, everything's great.
389
00:14:14,637 --> 00:14:16,654
Mm.
390
00:14:16,773 --> 00:14:19,824
You know, actually, uh, to be honest,
391
00:14:19,943 --> 00:14:22,694
I did have a little bit
of a freakout right then
392
00:14:22,812 --> 00:14:24,779
when you paid the check.
393
00:14:24,865 --> 00:14:26,331
Really?
394
00:14:26,449 --> 00:14:31,586
But I'm not afraid to be able
to tell you the truth.
395
00:14:31,671 --> 00:14:33,254
'Cause I think you're special
396
00:14:33,340 --> 00:14:36,524
and I want to be vulnerable with you.
397
00:14:36,610 --> 00:14:38,893
Yeah. Yeah, I know.
398
00:14:38,995 --> 00:14:42,714
You have been vulnerable with me
all night.
399
00:14:42,833 --> 00:14:46,968
About your feelings,
your dreams, and your regrets.
400
00:14:47,053 --> 00:14:49,721
And, um, it's a big turnoff.
401
00:14:51,024 --> 00:14:53,174
I just want to have fun.
402
00:14:53,276 --> 00:14:55,393
Oh, this is why I usually date
younger men.
403
00:14:56,863 --> 00:14:58,279
What are you saying?
404
00:15:01,167 --> 00:15:02,283
Thanks a lot.
405
00:15:04,512 --> 00:15:06,095
She dumped me.
406
00:15:08,909 --> 00:15:10,957
- She dumped you?
- Yes, and I came here
407
00:15:11,074 --> 00:15:13,177
to tell you how terrible
your advice was
408
00:15:13,296 --> 00:15:15,430
in the hopes that it would
make me feel better,
409
00:15:15,515 --> 00:15:17,065
but it's not helping.
410
00:15:19,102 --> 00:15:20,401
That's not doing it either.
411
00:15:20,487 --> 00:15:24,939
When I told Georgia
about my feelings, she bailed.
412
00:15:25,041 --> 00:15:26,708
I had it right
when I was just running around,
413
00:15:26,793 --> 00:15:28,326
telling chicks
that I can't call them back
414
00:15:28,428 --> 00:15:31,362
because I'm about to spend
a month on America's Moonbase.
415
00:15:31,464 --> 00:15:33,047
America doesn't have a Moonbase.
416
00:15:33,133 --> 00:15:34,432
They don't know that.
417
00:15:34,551 --> 00:15:36,434
Oh, D-Dad, come on.
418
00:15:36,553 --> 00:15:37,919
I've seen you do more for Georgia
419
00:15:38,021 --> 00:15:39,938
than I've seen you do
for any other woman.
420
00:15:40,056 --> 00:15:41,222
I mean, you... you participated
421
00:15:41,308 --> 00:15:42,891
in that role-playing exercise we did.
422
00:15:42,976 --> 00:15:44,609
If you ever mention that to anyone,
423
00:15:44,711 --> 00:15:45,726
I swear to God, I'm gon...
424
00:15:45,829 --> 00:15:46,861
I know, I know.
425
00:15:46,963 --> 00:15:48,296
But the fact
that you were willing to do that
426
00:15:48,381 --> 00:15:52,884
shows that you're ready to try
having a real relationship.
427
00:15:53,003 --> 00:15:54,269
You've grown.
428
00:15:54,354 --> 00:15:56,471
Eh, maybe I have.
429
00:15:56,556 --> 00:15:57,939
A little.
430
00:15:58,024 --> 00:15:59,974
But when you open up like that,
431
00:16:00,060 --> 00:16:02,527
you are just asking to get
kicked in the crotch, you know?
432
00:16:02,629 --> 00:16:04,195
O-O-Of course.
433
00:16:04,314 --> 00:16:05,330
But if you never open up,
434
00:16:05,448 --> 00:16:06,915
no one will ever know that you're more
435
00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,167
than just a man with money.
436
00:16:09,286 --> 00:16:13,755
And you are more than just a man
with money.
437
00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:15,223
Maybe you're right.
438
00:16:15,308 --> 00:16:17,725
Dad, I'm sorry it didn't work out.
439
00:16:17,811 --> 00:16:20,395
But I feel that the next time
you meet somebody special,
440
00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:22,530
you'll be ready.
441
00:16:22,616 --> 00:16:25,316
I'm gonna go graffiti
one of Georgia's buildings.
442
00:16:25,435 --> 00:16:26,401
Need help?
443
00:16:27,410 --> 00:16:29,236
Yeah, grab some paint.
444
00:16:29,339 --> 00:16:31,923
♪♪
445
00:16:32,042 --> 00:16:33,741
[Sighs]
446
00:16:33,843 --> 00:16:34,842
What are you doing?
447
00:16:34,928 --> 00:16:36,344
Oh, you know, just putting together
448
00:16:36,429 --> 00:16:40,098
a six-course meal for my kids
because I love them so much.
449
00:16:40,216 --> 00:16:41,699
It's a Tuesday.
450
00:16:41,818 --> 00:16:43,484
Oh, I guess an aunt would only whip up
451
00:16:43,570 --> 00:16:45,136
something special on a holiday.
452
00:16:45,238 --> 00:16:47,021
But a mother loves her kids enough
453
00:16:47,123 --> 00:16:51,409
to make a meal that won't be
ready for another four hours.
454
00:16:51,527 --> 00:16:53,578
Okay. Before I confront you on this,
455
00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,097
put down the knife.
456
00:16:56,196 --> 00:16:58,933
- [Sighs]
- Have you lost your mind?
457
00:16:59,019 --> 00:17:00,818
I just feel so useless.
458
00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:02,987
The kids used to come to me
for everything.
459
00:17:03,106 --> 00:17:05,139
I answered all their questions,
gave them all advice.
460
00:17:05,241 --> 00:17:06,824
And every time they were
about to get hurt,
461
00:17:06,943 --> 00:17:08,943
they would say, "Hey, Mom, watch this."
462
00:17:09,029 --> 00:17:11,029
And if I wasn't around, they
would wait until I was looking
463
00:17:11,147 --> 00:17:12,196
and then hurt themselves.
464
00:17:12,315 --> 00:17:14,549
But now I don't know who they're
hurting themselves in front of.
465
00:17:14,617 --> 00:17:17,118
- Do you hear yourself?
- [Sighs]
466
00:17:17,163 --> 00:17:18,636
It's just when I see the Band-Aids,
467
00:17:18,755 --> 00:17:21,923
I think, "Who kissed the boo-boo?"
468
00:17:22,008 --> 00:17:25,893
Oh, girl, what's happening
with you is natural.
469
00:17:25,979 --> 00:17:28,696
On some level, you're the enemy now.
470
00:17:28,782 --> 00:17:30,365
"The ruiner of fun."
471
00:17:30,450 --> 00:17:31,366
"Ruiner of fun"?
472
00:17:31,451 --> 00:17:33,034
Their words, not mine.
473
00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:35,286
But come on, you remember
how it was with Mama.
474
00:17:35,405 --> 00:17:37,288
We stopped coming to her
with every little thing,
475
00:17:37,407 --> 00:17:39,123
but we still came to her
for the big things,
476
00:17:39,242 --> 00:17:41,609
like first kisses and big breakups
477
00:17:41,711 --> 00:17:44,095
and getting banned from Mervyn's
for shoplifting.
478
00:17:44,214 --> 00:17:45,913
- What?
- Mama never told you?
479
00:17:45,999 --> 00:17:47,965
- Unh-unh.
- Look.
480
00:17:48,084 --> 00:17:50,951
I know your kids getting older
isn't easy.
481
00:17:51,054 --> 00:17:52,420
But no one,
482
00:17:52,505 --> 00:17:55,339
not even someone as amazing as me,
483
00:17:55,458 --> 00:17:58,810
is going to replace you.
484
00:17:58,928 --> 00:18:01,512
Thanks, Dee.
485
00:18:01,631 --> 00:18:04,565
Do they really call me
"the ruiner of fun"?
486
00:18:04,651 --> 00:18:07,735
They didn't say it as much
as they have a song about it.
487
00:18:07,821 --> 00:18:10,438
Uh, it could be about anybody, though.
488
00:18:10,523 --> 00:18:11,544
Probably Paul.
489
00:18:11,623 --> 00:18:14,040
- [Laughs]
- Mm-hmm.
490
00:18:14,143 --> 00:18:15,243
Mm-hmm.
491
00:18:15,328 --> 00:18:16,458
[Laughs]
492
00:18:16,513 --> 00:18:19,414
In 1987, I got to see the adults
493
00:18:19,499 --> 00:18:21,949
in my life grow and change.
494
00:18:22,035 --> 00:18:23,701
Oh, hey. You just missed dinner.
495
00:18:23,820 --> 00:18:25,286
Got here just in time.
496
00:18:25,371 --> 00:18:26,821
And you are...?
497
00:18:26,923 --> 00:18:30,030
- This is Mindy.
- Hey.
498
00:18:30,091 --> 00:18:32,091
Uh, what's your story?
499
00:18:32,163 --> 00:18:34,746
I don't have a story.
500
00:18:34,873 --> 00:18:36,573
I should get a story.
501
00:18:36,701 --> 00:18:38,557
Okay. We can be friends.
502
00:18:38,668 --> 00:18:42,002
♪ When the going gets tough ♪
503
00:18:42,105 --> 00:18:43,337
My mother realized that
504
00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,339
even though her role was different...
505
00:18:45,442 --> 00:18:46,607
Mom?
506
00:18:46,693 --> 00:18:47,859
I need your help with something.
507
00:18:47,977 --> 00:18:49,510
...there would always be
a place for her.
508
00:18:49,612 --> 00:18:51,846
Tamika keeps going after
my jeans, and I want to sue.
509
00:18:51,948 --> 00:18:53,314
Uh, you can't afford me.
510
00:18:53,399 --> 00:18:54,449
♪ The tough get going ♪
511
00:18:54,534 --> 00:18:58,069
But I'll sit and hear your case.
512
00:18:58,187 --> 00:18:59,570
♪ Whoa, whoa ♪
513
00:18:59,689 --> 00:19:02,374
And Dad learned he could give
his father advice.
514
00:19:02,407 --> 00:19:04,624
You're going back
to your old ways, huh?
515
00:19:04,695 --> 00:19:06,327
No, no, I introduced her as Mindy.
516
00:19:06,419 --> 00:19:08,130
I'm pretty sure that's her real name.
517
00:19:09,666 --> 00:19:11,883
Hey.
518
00:19:12,001 --> 00:19:13,701
[Clears throat]
519
00:19:13,803 --> 00:19:15,219
Thanks.
520
00:19:17,403 --> 00:19:19,223
For pushing me a little bit.
521
00:19:20,721 --> 00:19:22,321
Of course, Dad.
522
00:19:26,048 --> 00:19:27,381
[Door opens]
523
00:19:27,501 --> 00:19:28,824
DENISE: Hold up.
524
00:19:28,909 --> 00:19:30,805
- Were you two about to cry?
- What? No.
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[Voice breaking] No.
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Also, there's a weird woman
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stealing a bunch of stuff upstairs.
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Cindy, time to go to Pizza Palace!
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DENISE: Introducing Denise Johnson's
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Accessory to Self-Defense.
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For only $19.95,
you can learn how to use
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everyday objects on your person
to protect yourself.
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Learn my specially developed techniques
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like Purse-Jitsu!
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Ninja Heel.
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No!
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Whoop-Ass Belt!
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Hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo!
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And it's fun for the whole family.
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♪♪
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So call this number
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and order Denise Johnson's
Accessory to Self-Defense.
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Act now, and I'll throw in
a pair of boomerang bracelets.
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♪♪
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You doing good, kids.
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